Jamai Sasthi
Also called Jamai Shashthi
When
Thursday, 10 June 2027 in 273 days
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Why this date?
Jyeshtha Shukla Shashthi.
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What In short
The Bengali son-in-law's day. The wife's parents invite him, feed him an elaborate meal, and the mother-in-law performs a rite for his wellbeing with a hand-fan and a thread on the wrist.
- Deity: Shashthi
Why The reason behind it
It sits under the Shashthi devi observances that protect children โ the daughter's welfare is the actual subject, approached through her husband. The extravagance of the meal is the point of the day socially: the son-in-law is on notice that the daughter has a family behind her.
Traditional basis
Shashthi devi tradition โ The family of Shashthi observances for the protection of children, of which this is one.
Bengali household custom โ The invitation, the fan rite and the meal.
How At home, step by step
- The son-in-law is invited to the wife's parents' home.
- The mother-in-law fans him, applies a tilak and ties a thread.
- The meal is the day's substance โ traditionally many courses, ending with sweets.
Fasting and breaking the fast
The opposite of a fast for the guest; the mother-in-law commonly fasts until the rite is done.
Fasting guidance here describes traditional practice. It is not medical advice โ if you are pregnant, diabetic, on medication or unwell, ask a doctor about your own circumstances.
Personal In your region
- Bengal (Bengali)
Kept widely across West Bengal and among Bengalis elsewhere.
For children
The day a family invites their daughter's husband over and feeds him an enormous meal.
Common questions
- Is it really about the son-in-law?
- Formally yes, and substantively about the daughter โ it belongs to the Shashthi observances for family welfare, and the hospitality is a statement that she is not without support.
Not the same day
These fall nearby or share the tithi, and are often confused with this observance. They are separate, and this site dates them separately.
- Shashthi
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